Tuesday, September 26, 2006
I posted the post below because many of the people that I call "friend" are no longer talking to me since Brennan was born. I'm still me, just not naive anymore. A pregnancy no longer represents just a baby to me. It hurts me more when you no longer talk to me, than the POSSIBILITY of you saying something that would hurt. Ironically, the one true person that calls me no matter what, is my guy friend. WTF is up with that? LOL! You would think another woman would understand more... but nope.. it's him. He's never experienced the loss of a child. He's not married. He's in a dating relationship, and yet, he understands more wordly than anyone could understand. He'll call just to give me time to talk of Brennan. That's all I really need. To talk of my children. And I say children (plural) because Brennan is that.. a child of God. He's just with him instead of me now. I'll see him later. I'll get to meet him later. I'll get to see him again.. later.
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No I don't.
At my home, I'm going to do up a shadow box with his things in.. but that was all. I am going to hang it along with his picture. I'm just not sure where I'm going to hang it as there are some that choose not to view him.
I'm sorry alicia. Even though my loss wasn't nearly as painful as yours, I found that most of my friends didn't know what to say to me (that's what they said, anyway) so they just ignored me. It's hard to be on both sides of it, but obviously much, much harder to be in your shoes. I hope things start to look up soon, I'm sure they will.
Oh, and peanut has a great idea there. I think it might help everyone -- you'll have to let us know what you do.
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